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Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions

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Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions.

education gateway personal development nlp negative emotions limiting decisionsIn doing NLP Techniques that determine negative emotions or limiting decisions, we will work mostly with eliminating the client’s past experience of those negative emotions and limiting decisions.

It is important to determine the difference between these two modalities of intervention. Generally anything that is not a negative emotion is a limiting decision. The explanation for the limiting decision is simple; once you say yes to something, you automatically say no to something else and so limit yourself in one way or the other. As we learn in NLP that all resources and guilt are created in the past and anxiety and challenges are created in the future, firstly we need to zoom in on the phenomena of the negative emotions. Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions.

What to do first?

The first question is, what make people stuck to such negative emotions. Somewhere down the road it must serve a need, make us feel secure and certain about how it serves us. Let’s zoom in on this one.

One thing mostly forgotten while learning is that we experience a lot of emotions and as human nature is trained to stick with something it already knows, failure. It is easy to understand that negative emotions are simply learnings that have the emotion stuck to it. The specific emotion feels so good and so natural that you want to stick to it by thinking it over and over again.

So one of the most important actions for us NLP Practitioners is to guide our client to keep the learning and get rid of the emotion. For example: If you would learn how to recognise a hologram, the fun part is, is that the moment you have learnt to see it, you cannot de-learn it. On the other hand it is pretty funny that this is learning where you do not attach any negative emotion to it. It doesn’t take much time that you store this experience as learning as a resource in your brain and access it whenever needed. Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions.

 

Negative Emotions

Now let’s zoom into a negative emotions and create the tools to get rid of the negativity and only keep the positive learnings from it. First we need to go back in time and get the client associated fully with that moment. Have your client float all the way back on their timeline, all the way back to that specific event and being above that event looking down on that particular event. Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions.

Ask your client if it is ok for their unconscious mind for them to release this emotion and for them to be aware of it consciously? It is the time now to find the first and earliest event or the first experience of this event ever in their history. Ask what the root-cause is of this problem, the first event which, when disconnected, will cause the problem to disappear?

Ask your client: “If you were to know you do not know, but if you did, take whatever comes up first, trust your unconscious mind now, what is there to have learned from this event, the learning of which will allow you to easily let go of this emotion? As this negative emotion does not protect you, nor protect your body, won’t you be a lot safer if you let go of this emotion and preserve the learnings about taking care of yourself? Won’t it be better to preserve the learnings than the emotions?

If you let go of the emotions and preserve the learnings you will have learned what you needed. Ask your unconscious mind what it needs to learn from the event, the learning of which will allow you to let go of the emotions easily and effortlessly. Your unconscious mind can preserve the learnings so that if you need them in the future, they’ll be there.”

 

Now get some results

Have your client float in the specific event and continue: “Just float right down into the event and notice that the emotion has disappeared. Have a close look, it is totally gone! Now, only at the rate and speed you are comfortable with, I want you to float back again above the event and start noticing that each and every event similar to this one starts to change too, haven’t they? As a matter of fact they already changed, aren’t they? Each and every event totally changed the way you want, didn’t they?”

Now have your client float all the way back above the now. Guide your client: “Now, come back to now, above your timeline only as quickly as you can let go of all the old emotions on the events all the way back to now, with each subsequent event, preserve the learnings, and let go of the old emotions all the way back to now. Float down into now, and come back into the room.” Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions.

As it is time to test now, ask your client: “Can you remember any event in the past where you used to be able to feel that old emotion, and go back and notice if you can feel it, or you may find that you cannot.” Of course it is time here to test your client until your client is totally convinced, that is were we are for, aren’t we? Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions.

 

Future Pacing

As the last part we need to future pace the new learnings. Instruct your client: “I want you to go out into the future to an unspecified time in the future which if it had happened in the past, you would have felt an inappropriate or unwarranted old emotion and notice if you can find that old emotion, or you may find that you cannot. OK?” Good come back to now, into the room.” Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions.

Now for the watching-eyes under us, you have noticed that you can utilise trance with this example about handling negative emotions. Also the same is true about handling limiting decisions. I let your creative mind chew on that one for a while. Never the less, I hope you experience and have experienced that the combination of suggestion, trance and timelines is a powerful way to handle negative emotions and limiting decisions. Negative Emotions Limiting Decisions.

 

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Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo?

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The Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

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The Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo? Please, read this article closely. I promise that there won’t be any loud sounds or nasty tricks, but this blog-post is going to hurt. There’s a study about hyper-sounds and how they cause headaches. These sounds are too high-pitched to hear. Like the one added to reading this blog right now – but cause headaches they still do.

The hyper-sounds are pressing on your inner ear. Stressing the nerves leading to your brain where, if the headache hasn’t started already, it soon will as exposure causes headaches after only ten seconds. Oh my. Can you feel it? That pressure on your ears spreading to your now throbbing brain? Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

Because……you shouldn’t. The study is made up. And there’s no hyper-sound in this blog, but still some of you will have began to feel a headache. Why? The Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo Nocebo Effect

 

What is the Nocebo Effect?

A nocebo is a harmless thing. Like an article with nonexistent hyper-sounds. – Writing to cause harm like a headache because you believe it’s harmful. That sounds like Voodoo. But there’s science behind the nocebo effect, which is more than an irritating parlor trick. It causes real problems like in medicine. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

When testing a new drug doctors get a group of sick people. They give them half of them the new drug and give the other have a fake pill that does nothing. But which they’re told is real. This is how science finds the stuff that works amongst the junk that doesn’t. But new drugs have side effects and sometimes patients drop out of the experiment because of them. No surprise there. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

But some people on the fake *also* drop out from the side effects. Side effects they’ve gotten from a drug they *aren’t* taking. But because they *think* they’re on the real thing, they’ve also *thought* themselves into the side effects. Now maybe this is just a case of misattribution. People get headaches and, if they’re joined a drug trial that lists headaches in the side effects, it’s natural to blame the new drug. And that certainly happens to some extent. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

 

Attribution or Misattribution?

But the nocebo effects is more than just misattribution. It causes real, additional harm that scientists can measure in cruel, cruel experiments. And this is one of the reasons there not an over abundance of research on nocoboes. Approach your friendly neighbourhood ethics board with an experiment designed to hurt people and they’ll frown on that. But sometimes nocebo experiments do get approved to the benefit of science and humanity, if not the participants. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

For example, under the right conditions some people who expect a harmless injection will give them a rash will get a rash. But for people who expect nothing to happen, nothing is exactly what happens. And fake pills can be additive. Take test subjects off pills they believe are addictive and some will experience nocebic withdrawal symptoms. Like pain and fatigue from the pills that they could never have been addicted to in the first place. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

 

Experiments

Another experiment gave people harmless injections. They told half of them to just sit there and told the other half that their pain would increase for the next thirty minutes. Which it did. But in this situation there is a drug that can block the nocebo effect and those who were told the injection would hurt. But were also secretly given the nocebo blocking drug did *not* report an increase in pain. Showing that the nocebo effect is a real, physical process. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

In all these nocebo experiments it’s the belief in harm that matters. If someone dressed as a voodoo witch doctor popped up and hexed you with a curse of great pain – no effect. But, in a room with a real doctor and his clipboard and a big science machine and a needle in your arm, you’ll take his words rather more seriously. Which is why doctors say: “This won’t hurt a bit” rather than “Oh this? It’s going to hurt. Like a lot! Which, by the way, was a real experiment done on women undergoing labor during spinal injections. Guess how that turned out? Nocebo Effect

But nocebos don’t end here. While illnesses like the flu, spread from contact with disgusting, germ-infected humans and the things they touch with their, disgusting germy hands – a nocebo spreads from mind to mind, no contact required.

 

Once upon a time in a high school …

A notable example happened in a Tennessee high school. One teacher reported a strange smell in her classroom and developed symptoms of headache nausea, and difficulty breathing. These symptoms spread to some of her students and from them to others in the school. Almost two hundred people ended up at the local hospital but all medical tests came back with nothing, nor was anything harmful found at the school. This was a nocebo – the belief that the air was making them sick – spread mind to mind. Everyone who got sick heard about the symptoms from someone else. When this happens, it’s called mass psychogenic illness. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

The treatment in these cases is to separate those with symptoms from the rest and reassure the ill that yes, their symptoms are real. But no they haven’t been exposed to anything toxic. And yes people are getting better quickly. The last is one of the indicators that separates a real poison gas leak or biological weapon from mass psychogenic illness. But the final factor, number of cases increasing with greater media coverage, can lead to this kind of thing spreading far and wide.

 

Electro-Sensitivity

Take, electrosensitives. People who get nausea (among other things) from exposure to parts of the electromagnetic spectrum. Notably WiFi density of which is increasing over time, forcing particularly bad sufferers to retreat to places like the creepy-sounding radio science zone in, where else, West Virginia. But put electrosensitives in a room with a WiFi router and they can’t actually tell via their symptoms if it’s on or off. Instead their symptoms track with being told if it’s on or off.  Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

And if you make a group of people without electrosensitivity watch a news report on how Wifi makes you ill while another group watches something uninformative and afterward expose both groups to a fake Wifi signal only some of those who watched the news report feel sick. There’s a similar phenomenon like ‘wind farm disease’. With similar side effects, which turns up where it’s been talked about on the local news. But not in other places in the same country with the same wind farms where it isn’t. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

All this makes it too easy to mock people for thinking they’re getting sick from WiFi or Wind farms. Or Wind farms with WiFi! But it’s important to realise they’re not crazy, the side effects are real, they’re just wrong about the source: all evidence points to the belief in electrosensitivy as the cause of electrosensitivity. Which means the news reports talking about these illnesses are spreading a kind of mind virus. And while these are exotic examples, there is also evidence that some allergies and asthma cases are nocebic and thus able to be spread in the same way. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

Last but not Least!

Just to be clear and make sure. If someone’s having an asthma attack, that’s not the time to tell them you know they’re being a drama llama because you read an internet article about the Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo They’re really having an asthma attack. And they really need something to make it stop. And that’s really not you showing off your knowledge. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

Harmful things aren’t harmful just because we believe they are. The right dose of arsenic will kill you as surely as an anvil to the head. No matter your insistence otherwise. But the nocebo effect does show that our beliefs about otherwise harmless things can make them harmful. Which means that our voodoo doctor’s hex from before really could work, but only if you were foolish enough to believe him. Nocebo Effect Reality or Voodoo

 

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Rats Jail and Miami Vice

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Rats Jail and Miami Vice

education gateway personal development nlp rats jail and miami viceMotivating in Jail

At the gate a male guard is smoking a cigarette just in front of the sign “Correctional Unit for Drugs Addictions” and my mind goes “this is a contradiction, a big contradiction it even does not lack any thing like referential index”, just to abuse an NLP term, the abuse of dual standards, my newly invented term on the spot. By the way, serving time in Thai prison here is not like we are used to remember as prisons in our western culture. In the western hemisphere of the world, prisons are more like a hotel; these are places in Thailand you want to stay far-far away from. On the other hand, it is a great experience to see what is happening inside the walls. An opportunity I will not go let by. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

We have to start at 9:00am sharp. As we approach the entrance, a female guard asks what the purpose of our visit is. My first impression of her is that she has the same looks as one of the bad guards of an early James Bond movie. “What is your business here, Mr Bond”, my mind goes. We have to handover our identification trough a metal gate. In slow motion I see my passport and visa go to a section that is beyond my powers to access now. Another guard is guiding us to a waiting room that is cleaned on the spot. Women walking in and out like busy bees, carrying the unneeded stuff out of the room. All that is left is seemingly the introduction of Ikea in prison waiting rooms.

At a sudden the door opens. The female version of Crocket and Tubbs walk in. “Did the channel change to Miami Vice in the Twilight zone” I think involuntarily. One putting car keys of a BMW on the table and the other, not saying a word, keeping her sunglasses on staring at me. Obviously they are here to guide a handcraft workshop with female inmates. There goes my presupposition of Crocket and Tubbs. I have to grin shortly realising my mind can make up wild stories within an instance. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

 

Door after door

Again the door opens. A guard in uniform and 3-stars on the shoulder walks in. We have to follow her. The gate where we had to stick our identification trough the other side, now opens slowly. The door is more massively made of steel than my previous indication. Oui has a bag with a laptop and some presents for the prisoners. Baby powder with a scent. “Medai” the guard says. Cannot bring this into the prison.

As soon as I see it, my mind correlates “Powder, white, correctional-facility-for-drugs, hmmm, looks like ….” We have to leave the bottles with powder behind. It could be sold as a substance and even so, it could be a substance they could not check there. Lessons learnt, next time think better what you want to buy as a present. Oui’s bag is inspected thoroughly. We have to put all our electronic devices into a small safe. Oui gets a visitors badge. I go “Why do I not get a badge?”. “Are you a women?” Oui asks rhetorically. My mind goes: “Shit, missed that one.” Another door opens and a tremendous heat comes in. We start walking. Two guards, one with a stick and a high starred officer guides us to the location where we have to be. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

 

Uncomfortable pick nick tables

A humongous area, with uncountable and the more uncomfortable pick nick tables, although this is not a pick nick area covered by a cheap cover against the rain, is all that is at our disposal. I am sitting at the right, in front of the stage. Around one hundred women are being guided to listen to us. They sit down.

Some elderly to the right but most young ones to the left. It depends how you look at it. I sit sideways so I can view the stage, the audience but also the kitchen in the open air. The dishes are washed in a rhythm while cutting the vegies further on. It is almost making music with the most primitive instruments available. In a glitch out of the corner of my eye, I see something black approaching over the floor. Is it a pigeon? Is it a spider? No, it is a well-fed rat! Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

 

How much Time?

The beamer is connected. Gees Louise! How much time can it take? On the other hand, we have to be graceful for the fact that we are allowed to carry a notebook into the prison walls so we can show some video that is real, catching, and supports the story being told. An old beamer screen is held into position by two heavy plant-pots. An old desk takes care of the function to support the projector. One up one down, one sideways is the concept that is in my mind. Awaiting my time, I start waiting, listening to the environment that has so many things to tell. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

It turns hot, freekingly hot. A woman serves me coffee, some water and cake, wrapped under cling film. At this point, around 30 women are staring at me. I have coffee and water, they have nothing but jet another story to hear on to. Unknown to me what their conviction is Oui starts talking and my Thai is not trained, I do Thai boxing anyway, my mind drifts off with her story. Seeing her silhouette against a white wall, holding her microphone. In front of that wall a large amount of barbwire. In front of that, the one I love, the one that is my wife, my Oui. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

Opposite Sides

As the warmth has the opposite of cold, the same is true about an iceberg in the sea. You only see the top floating above the water. The same is true about our thoughts. As we think we have done our best our unconscious only just have started and warmed up. As Oui continues; It is not the aspirin that you take that makes your headache go away, it is your body’s response to it. The same is true about taking drugs. Some girls giggle. At the look at their face you see the seriousness returning quickly. Rats Jail and Miami Vice. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

In the audience is an elderly woman. Clearly she sees my reaction when the rat slips by She has to smile a bit when she sees my surprised reaction. As the rat sits behind the fence under a table with humungous pans of rice. I ask myself: Who has a better life: this rat inside the prison or people with no food outside? Does the rat knows he is in prison or as it is tidily being called at the entrance “Correctional Facility”? Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

 

Happiness

Happiness comes within. It is not created by swallowing a pill or putting a syringe in a vane. It is already there deep down inside of you. Oui stands like a rock telling her story with guts as she continues to tell: “The rewards are at the next level, nothing happens when nothing happens.” Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

I unwrap my coffee and slowly take a sip. They have done everything to make it as comfortable as possible. Milk and sugar already inside the coffee. The rewards are at the next level Oui repeats and shows another slide. Dark of nature the slide shows only bad words. But if you take a good look around, you see them written around a white silhouette painting words of love and peace that comes within.

Some women cry. You decide what to see, you go for the black you stick with everything you have every time you done before. You go for the white, you know it is already deep down inside of you. From the tip of your head to the top of your toe. From the inside out through the outside in, from the left hand to the right and from the right hand to what needs to be left alone, and some things need to be brought inside of you. And the first simple thing that needs to be brought inside of you is the fact that love comes from within. Without a question. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

 

Vivid Imagination Helps

If you imagine that the earth is spinning eight hundred twenty five kilometers around it’s axis two hundred thousand kilometers per hour around the sun. And nobody knows the speed of the sun as we are racing trough a dazzling speed trough space, who needs to have a second thought to love yourself.

Good thoughts are made in universe, magnetically connected as we only have to tune in at the right frequency. And if you want to have another thought, Oui demonstrates; Or do you want to get rid of that one bad thought, put your left hand out and pull it out with your right hand to your left and smash it. Just smash it. Some women look at each other but it doesn’t take long before they smile. “It works” some women yell. Unstoppable she continues to show some more pictures, all have in common “what do you see”. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

 

Da rat in da kitchen

As the rat sits in the kitchen still, seemingly listening to the story told, the shade of the barbwire grows over the white wall. Even the wind becomes hot right now. My butt hurts because of the wooden pick nick table and still it is not a pick nick yet. Oui shows one last video about a man without arms, without legs, living a life with all kinds of obstacles.

How do you brush your teeth without hands or feet? How do you eat? How do you dress yourself? This moment captures all the attention of the audience, noticing that what they have done is a stupid act by seeing someone with such a great persistent power. After the video shown, an applause rises out of the audience. Some women are silent, others cry. They take a lesson for the moment they will walk out of this prison soon. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

 

Starbucks on the way Home

We walk back the place were we came from and pass by Crocket and Tubbs at the woodman craft class. I still wonder which wood is crafted here. The walk back makes me realize these women here today will walk out here soon too. The same road we are walking now. As seemingly this road looks longer than the way in, I do not know why. The drive to get better, to be better and to improve day by day settles the knowledge that this only has been four hours in prison, makes me realize that there are a lot of good thoughts at this earth. It only depends which point of view you utilize. Are you the rat in prison kitchen or a person without a name without food outside? It is only a matter how you look at things. Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

Today made me realize Starbucks is there soon, Miami Vice was a hype and “Da rat in tha kitchen” has a good life. What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger! Rats Jail and Miami Vice.

 

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nlp คือ อะไร

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nlp คือ อะไร

NLP คือ อะไร?

NLP คือ อะไร – NLP is about how the brain works, it is about how people learn, think, decide, motivate and love life more. And we learn you how to do all of this better, faster and with more passion then you can now imagine! Here’s a sample list of some of the powerful skills that you will learn to harness in the Practitioner course.

This will help you to understand what NLP is about. Imagine having the profound ability to master these skills of influence. nlp คือ อะไร

Rapport NLP คือ อะไร?

What if you could instantly create rapport with anyone? First we will not only teach you but demonstrate time proven techniques for creating and maintaining high level rapport so that people will feel comfortable with you and allow you to interact with them at deeper and quicker levels. Entire books have been written on this one skill alone, it’s so valuable. And you will become a master of it in the very first day. As a result you will become masterfully skilled in creating Rapport!

Representational Systems and Minimal Cues NLP คือ อะไร?

You will learn to determine and experience your client’s reality by learning to discern the subtle cues that people are always giving you. First by learning to hear their descriptive language and observe their eye accessing cues, you’ll be able to discover how a person is thinking, and how to best respond for maximum influence and deeper connections. This is the beginning of working with strategies including learning, spelling, deciding, motivating and much more!

Sub-Modalities NLP คือ อะไร?

Have you ever had the kind of “Ahha!” experience when the secrets of the world seem to all make sense, and it all comes down to one thing? Well, it had to do with really getting to how human beings experience reality, it comes down to sub-modalities. They have been called the “bar codes” of human experience.

We learn you how to shift a person’s sub-modalities to help them create motivation, or create attraction or to move beyond one’s problems. Sub-modalities are used in timelines, belief changes, swish patterns and many more. The applications are virtually endless. They are fun, easy, practical and results producing. In addition we learn you how to shift unwanted sub-modalities into usable actions!

Imagine having the ability to make your future brighter, your problems less intense, your pleasure more delightful, your get-up-and-go super charged, and more, all through the use of one single ability we will teach you in this seminar. 


Anchoring NLP คือ อะไร?

Speaking of anchoring, many people know or have heard of the concept of anchoring but very few people can actually do it very effectively. In this class you will learn the absolutely most precise and effective distinctions on the art of anchoring available today. Whether you think you may know how to anchor or are fully aware that you don’t, you will. You can be sure. You’ll learn to anchor powerful states in yourself and others both overtly and subtly, in all the different modalities. 


Reframing NLP คือ อะไร?

No, not what you do to old photographs. Reframing is the ability to see things in another perspective. Imagine having the ability to change objections and complaints into real advantages. It’s what all the best sales people do the world over. You’re probably asking, “Could I do this for myself?” YES and easily!

First you learn to perfect several different types of reframing applications that cut through objections and complaints like a hot knife through butter! Second you also learn other reframing techniques that are extremely useful in resolving internal conflicts. Internal conflicts that have a nasty habit of getting in our way to success. 
Most of all you learn to apply these techniques naturally, without even thinking about it.

The Meta-Model 
 NLP คือ อะไร?

Have you ever had a conversation with somebody and come away from it wondering what planet they came from? Well, with the Meta-Model you will know. What I mean is that with the Meta-Model you are able to get to the heart of what it is they are trying to say so that you can more effectively communicate with them. Most of all it is powerful and definitely must be used with tact. We make sure you know why and how. Many trainers only know one way to use this model and that is to get more specific information. We will let you in on some other secrets about the real purpose of this model. 


The Milton Model 
 NLP คือ อะไร?

Milton Erickson was the foremost hypnotherapist of the twentieth century, perhaps the best of all time. Richard Bandler and John Grinder applied their NLP X-ray vision to his work to find out the secrets to his extraordinary ability to influence. Finally, the result is the Milton Model, the unique language patterns that had such a deep affect on Milton’s clients. Learn during the training the amazing analysis of Erickson’s methods. In addition we help you create the ability to help you understand and easily apply those very same language patterns to our own communications and have similar impact with your customers, clients and significant people in your lives.

Timelines NLP คือ อะไร?

Have you ever noticed how some times you can be organised and on time and other times, time itself, just seems to slip away? Do you know some people who are never late and some never on time? Hence the way we store and utilise time is a natural process inside of you, an integral part of who you are. During the training we will demonstrate the process and show you how to control, flex and utilise your different perceptions of time in ways that will not only give you more choices in your life. Most of all, it will allow you to do change work faster and easier with more far reaching results into the future. This is so powerful and so naturally a part of you. 
Most of all we learn you how to apply these techniques in daily life!

What will you learn More?  NLP คือ อะไร?

During our training we teach you so much more!  As with most – if not all – of the ideas and concepts taught in this seminar, we will not only talk about these ideas but actually do them with each other. You’ll be amazed to find that you’ll get all the benefits of these life changing NLP techniques at the same time that you are learning them! We’ve had people lose weight, quit smoking, get promotions, find someone special, you name it, without even trying! Just because they are in the process of changing their attitude about life. Become a more positive and skilled human being during this seminar is the goal we reach.

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TOEFL Reading Tips

TOEFL Reading Tips

TOEFL Reading Tips

TOEFL Reading TipsThe TOEFL Reading Tips Section of the TOEFL iBT tests your ability to read and comprehend a series of academic texts written in English, and is the first of four sections you will encounter on test day. You will be given from 60-80 minutes to complete between 36-56 questions, based on 3-4 separate reading passages. It’s important to note that not all questions included on your test will count towards your score, as one of the four passages may be included for experimental purposes. Since you won’t know which one, it’s best to treat each section with equal importance, and do your best to answer all the questions. TOEFL Reading Tips.

The reading section may seem daunting at first, but if you follow the four simple tips listed below, you’re sure to increase your score. TOEFL Reading Tips.

1. Improve your Vocabulary TOEFL Reading Tips.

Your first task begins long before test day has arrived. Improving your vocabulary is the number one way to improve your reading comprehension. How to do this you ask? Read! Use textbooks, news articles, or any other source of academic literature to help you build your vocabulary in a variety of subjects. When you come across a word you don’t know, write it down and look it up later in an English to English dictionary. Practice your vocabulary daily by making flashcards or a word list. The more often you use your new vocabulary, the more likely you are to remember it. TOEFL Reading Tips.

2. Read the Questions First TOEFL Reading Tips.

When you begin the test, take a minute or two to briefly read over the questions before you begin reading the first passage. Knowing the questions beforehand will help you decide which material to focus on, and will allow you to read with purpose. Additionally, it’s important to note that the questions are usually in the same order as they appear in the passage. When you find the answer to the first question, the information for the second question will appear next, and so on and so forth. TOEFL Reading Tips.

3. Use Context Clues TOEFL Reading Tips.

No matter how many words you learn or how much you work to improve your vocabulary, let’s face it, you’re going to encounter some words on the test that you are unfamiliar with. When presented with this situation, the best solution is to try to infer, or guess, the meaning of the word in question based on the vocabulary surrounding it, as well as the overall meaning of the sentence. Use prefixes and suffixes to help you grasp the meaning of the words you’re unsure about, and ask yourself if they have any relation to other, similar words you might know. TOEFL Reading Tips.

4. Learn to Skim TOEFL Reading Tips.

Come exam day, you will not have time to read the entire passage, which makes skimming a vital skill. Skimming is the art of reading quickly through a passage to get the general information, without reading every word. Look for key words and understand that the main ideas usually come at the beginning or end of a paragraph, while examples and details are usually found in the middle, or body, of a paragraph or passage. Practice this skill by reading academic material on your own, leading up to the test. Skim first and take notes on your understanding, then go back and read again in detail. Did you understand correctly the first time? Where was the important information located? TOEFL Reading Tips.

While there are many more strategies for the TOEFL exam, following the basic ones listed here will put you well on your way to achieving the TOEFL score you desire. If you’d like more detailed tips and information for each section, read our series of in depth articles below: TOEFL Reading Tips.

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TOEFL Writing Tips

TOEFL Writing Tips

TOEFL Writing Tips

TOEFL Writing TipsThe TOEFL Writing Tips Section of the TOEFL iBT tests your ability to communicate effectively in an academic environment through written English, and is the fourth and final section you will encounter on test day. The Writing Section is divided into two different tasks: the integrated task and the independent task. The first task in this section, the integrated task, is similar to some of the tasks in the listening section in that you must first read a passage, then listen to a portion of a lecture. This writing assignment requires you to relate the information in the reading and the lecture and respond to the given prompt. You should spend 20 minutes on this task and write between 150 to 225 words. TOEFL Writing Tips.

The second task, the independent task, will ask you to respond to a given prompt by giving your opinion. You should spend about 30 minutes on this task and write a minimum of 300 words for an effective answer. TOEFL Writing Tips.

Although writing in any language can be challenging, you will be sure to increase your score if you follow the simple tips listed below: TOEFL Writing Tips.

1. Focus on Structure TOEFL Writing Tips.

When typing your response for the written section of the TOEFL iBT, it’s very important to ensure you have all the correct elements of a well-constructed essay. This means that each response should include an introduction, three body paragraphs and a conclusion. For the second task, your introduction should clearly state your opinion and outline the topics you will cover in your essay. Your body paragraphs should cover three distinct topics, with examples and details to support each topic. Finally, your conclusion should restate your opinion and summarize the main points of your essay, solidifying your response. TOEFL Writing Tips.

2. Create an Outline TOEFL Writing Tips.

Sometimes the hardest part of writing is just getting started. It can be difficult to know where to begin and how to organize our thoughts unless we plan the essay before we begin. An outline is a tool to help us keep our ideas in order and make sure we have included all the necessary parts. Start by writing a one-sentence representation of your introduction. Then write your three main topics for the body, with short bullet point details to support each one. Doing so will save you time once you begin writing, as you will essentially be connecting the dots of your outline. Memorize and use transitions to make your writing flow smoothly. TOEFL Writing Tips.

3. Choose the Side Easiest to Support TOEFL Writing Tips.

This tip applies specifically to the independent writing task. Task two will often give you a statement and ask you to what extent you agree or disagree with that statement. Regardless of what your personal feelings are about the subject, it is always better to choose to agree or disagree based on which side you can quickly come up with the most reasons and examples to support. Once you read the prompt, quickly choose a side and list the reasons you will use to support it. If you can’t easily think of three good ones, try the other side. Do not waste time trying to come up with examples to support an opinion that is difficult to explain. TOEFL Writing Tips.

While there are many more strategies for the TOEFL exam, following the basic ones listed here will put you well on your way to achieving the TOEFL score you desire. If you’d like more detailed tips and information for each section, read our series of in depth articles below:  TOEFL Writing Tips.

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TOEFL Listening Tips

TOEFL Listening Tips

TOEFL Listening Tips

TOEFL Listening TipsThe TOEFL Listening Tips Section of the TOEFL iBT tests your ability to listen and comprehend a series of academic talks, lectures, classroom discussions and conversations. This is the second section you will encounter on test day. You will be given 60-90 minutes to answer between 36-51 questions. The difference in time and number of questions depends on whether you are randomly selected to complete the extended version or the normal version of the test.  TOEFL Listening Tips.

The listening section contains three different types of passages. Academic lectures, office hours conversations and service conversations, with each passage containing five to six questions.  TOEFL Listening Tips.

The listening section may seem difficult, however, you’re sure to increase your score if you follow the simple tips listed below. TOEFL Listening Tips.

1. Take Notes TOEFL Listening Tips.

During the listening portion of the TOEFL iBT test you will hear each listening passage only once. Therefore, it is extremely important to learn how to take good notes. Use the blank paper in order to write down crucial information from the passage. You will not be able to see the questions before you listen. It is necessary to write down anything you think. Use your notes to help you answer detail questions such as names, dates, places, etc. TOEFL Listening Tips.

2. Familiarize Yourself with Question Types TOEFL Listening Tips.

Although you will not be able to see the questions before you listen to each passage, you can guess what will be asked if you know the types of questions on the listening section. These questions include: main idea, detail, purpose of passage, inference, speaker’s opinion, and organisation of the lecture.

Now you know what types of questions you will be asked can help you focus on what information to write down and will make it easier to separate essential and non-essential information. TOEFL Listening Tips.

3. Listen for Signposts TOEFL Listening Tips.

Signposts are words or phrases that signal what the speaker will talk about next. Now you know the types of questions that will be asked, you can identify the signposts used to introduce those topics. Doing so will once again help you focus on key information in the passage and prepare you to take notes.

In addition, listen for words or phrases that are repeated more than once in a short time period. It is likely you will be asked to answer questions based this information. Repeated words may also indicate a main idea or the definition of a specialty term. TOEFL Listening Tips.
There are many more strategies for the TOEFL exam, following the basic ones listed here will put you well on your way to achieving the TOEFL score you desire.

Do you like more detailed tips and information for each section? Then read our series of in depth articles below: TOEFL Listening Tips.

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TOEFL Speaking Tips

TOEFL Speaking Tips

TOEFL Speaking Tips

TOEFL Speaking TipsThe TOEFL Speaking Tips Section of the TOEFL iBT tests your ability to communicate effectively through spoken English, and is the third section you will encounter on test day. You will have 20 minutes to complete a total of six tasks: two independent and four integrated. The two independent tasks will ask you to speak for 45 seconds about familiar topics, give an opinion, or talk about past experiences. For the integrated tasks, you will be given 60 seconds and asked to read, listen and then speak, either summarizing the information in the passages or giving an opinion about how to solve a particular problem presented in the reading and/or listening.  TOEFL Speaking Tips.

It is important to note that you will not be talking to a live person, but speaking your answers into a microphone, where they will be recorded and sent to ETS for grading.  TOEFL Speaking Tips.

If you’re feeling nervous about speaking, just follow the simple tips listed below for a sure way to improve your score. TOEFL Speaking Tips.

1. Exercise Time Management TOEFL Speaking Tips.

On the test, you will be given 45 seconds to respond to each of the independent tasks, with 15 seconds to prepare your answer. Before each of the integrated tasks, you will be given 30 seconds to prepare your response, after which you have 60 seconds to speak. Use the preparation time to write down a few quick notes and organize your thoughts, or review your notes from the listening section.

A countdown timer will appear on the screen indicating the time you have left to answer the question. Be sure to check this clock often to keep track of your time. Ideally, you should fill as much time as possible without going over the limit. Therefore, if you have time left at the end of your response, it might be a good idea to say a short conclusion. It’s necessary to note, however, that anything you say after the time is up will not be recorded. TOEFL Speaking Tips.

2. Keep it Simple TOEFL Speaking Tips.

Part of your score for the speaking section will depend on how clearly you can convey your ideas. In order to communicate clearly, it’s important to stick to vocabulary and phrases you are already familiar with. The TOEFL test is not the place to try out new words you read this morning, or some slang you heard in a movie. Be sure to use words you know how to pronounce correctly and use accurately within a sentence. This applies to tense and grammar structures as well, since a well-spoken simple response will always get higher marks than an unclear or incorrect response with complex language. TOEFL Speaking Tips.

3. Practice Speaking Before the Test TOEFL Speaking Tips.

As with any activity, the key to success is practice. Ideally, practicing your English with a native speaker would be the best way to prepare for the test. However, if you don’t know or can’t find any native English speakers to talk with, a good solution is to record yourself answering some sample questions from the test. Not only will this give you practice with the question types and time management, but it will help you feel more comfortable speaking into a microphone.

If possible, play back the recordings to your friends and ask them if they notice any mistakes or have any suggestions for how to improve your speech or pronunciation. TOEFL Speaking Tips.

While there are many more strategies for the TOEFL exam, following the basic ones listed here will put you well on your way to achieving the TOEFL score you desire. If you’d like more detailed tips and information for each section, read our series of in depth articles below: TOEFL Speaking Tips.

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Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want

tips to achieve the toefl score you want

Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want

tips to achieve the toefl score you wantSo, you’ve decided to study abroad and your prospective university requires you to take the Test of English as a Foreign Language (TOEFL) in order to be accepted. If you’re like most students, you know you have to earn a high score, but you have no idea where to start. Below are three great tips for achieving your best TOEFL score possible. Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want.

1. Familiarize yourself with the test. Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want.

The biggest mistake most students make is that they go into the exam blind, meaning that they have no idea what to expect once it begins. The first thing you should do is learn the format and layout of the TOEFL. What skills will be tested? What tasks will you be asked to complete? What sort of topics are you going to read, write, speak and listen about? How much time will you be given to complete each of the tasks? Knowing what to expect on exam day will relieve a great deal of stress and anxiety, allowing you to relax and focus on the task at hand. The answers to all the above questions and more can be found on the official TOEFL website: www.ets.org/toefl

2. Practice, practice, practice. Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want.
The best way to get good at anything is to practice often, and TOEFL is no different. When preparing to take the TOEFL, do as many practice tests as possible. Full-length practice exams can be found online and in the numerous TOEFL preparation textbooks available at your local bookstore. Not only does practicing help you know what to expect on test day, but it can help you identify your weak points, allowing you to focus more time and energy on developing particular skills. Before you begin practicing, read the official TOEFL scoring rubric. This will give you a good idea of the criteria used to grade your test.

3. Keep Track of your time and answer every question. Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want.

These days, most countries offer the Internet based TOEFL exam, which will provide you with an on-screen countdown timer for each section and, in some cases, individual tasks. Pay close attention to your time, as well as the number of questions you have remaining. Don’t spend too much time on difficult questions or you will not have time to complete the test. If you encounter a difficult question, skip it and come back to it later, but DO NOT leave it unanswered. There is no penalty for wrong answers on TOEFL, so it’s always better to guess than to leave it blank.  Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want.

While there are many more strategies for the TOEFL exam, following the basic ones listed here will put you well on your way to achieving the TOEFL score you desire, contact Education Gateway to get all the information you need! Education Gateway’s Education Consultants are there to help You!  Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want.

Tips to achieve the TOEFL score you want